Random Quotes

At first, gw bingung banget mau nulis apa. Banyak topik, of course, tapi otak gw lagi malas diputar buat mikir yang berat-berat. Topik-topik ringan? Ada kepikiran, tapi pembahasannya terlalu ringkas. Then I opened my camera roll, tadaaa... OK, gw nulis random quotes aja. Gw emang suka foto atau screenshot quotes yang menurut gw 'ngena'. These are them:

"Jawaban lo itu ya. Dan senyum lo itu waktu mengucapkannya. Aku tertawa. So, that's it? Lo takut jadi korban gue? Masalah banget ya berhubungan dengan perempuan yang tahu cari menikmati hidup seperti gue, tapi nggak masalah mencintai diam-diam perempuan yang sudah menikah seperti dia?

You know what, mungkin aku harus benar-benar menaklukkan kamu di Bali ini, then break your heart. Just to teach you a lesson." 

My comment: That's true, bro. Sometimes you need to teach other a lesson. Mungkin bakal ada yang bilang, "Ngeri lo, Mir." Whatever. This is how I work. And I ever did it. Bukan tentang cinta-cintaan kok, tapi tentang hal lain yang terlalu privasi untuk diceritakan di sini haha... Curious? Find me ;)

"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friends or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.

So take lots of pictures, laugh a lot, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend in need, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, LIVE IN THE MOMENT because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back."

My comment: We are all changing. And we'll always be changing. Even when we're old, we'll be changing. So, live in the moment. YOLO.

"Kalau tujuan gue mencari pengganti Damar sebagai mantan gue, sampai kapan pun gue nggak akan nemu. Damar ya damar, cuma ada satu di dunia ini, nggak ada yang bakal nyamain. Yang harusnya gue cari itu laki-laki yang bisa bikin gue percaya cinta lagi."

My comment: Ini kutipan novelnya Ika Natassa. Semacam true story gitu ke gw karena pernah ada orang yang ngomong ke gw hampir sama dengan kutipan di atas. Kurang lebih seperti ini, "Mir, jangan cari penggantinya mantan kamu, dong. Kalau mau cari yang kayak dia terus, gak bakal dapat. Kenapa? Karena dia cuma satu. Cari tuh perasaan nyamannya, bukan physically cowok baru dengan karakter dan sifat yang sama kayak mantan." - dr. Dimas, PPDS obgyn. 

Find him haha...

 "Some things in life are not meant to be measured, but just to be experienced, right?"

My comment: Yap, pengalaman itu sendiri gak akan pernah bisa diukur.

"Never beg for love. Never beg someone to be with you. Never beg for attention, commitment, affection, time, or effort. Never beg someone to come back or stay. You should never have to ask to feel wanted. Begging is demeaning and degrading. If someone doesn't willingly give you these things, with their arms wide open, they aren't worth it. No one, under any circumstances, is ever worth begging for."

My comment: What's meant to be will be. It's as simple as that. (Felita told me these two sentences) 

Last quote for this post and no "my comment" thing because I couldn't agree more: